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Behind bad luck comes good luck

Today, I'd like to share my friend Belinda's story to explain the idiom "Behind bad luck comes good luck".

Belinda was recruited by me from Xi'an before her graduation from college, she's a very extroverted and lively girl, she impressed me in her interview, she lost he father when she was very little, and her mother raised her by herself, she is very sensible and hoped to provide her mother happy life in the future, she's very sincere and outspoken like North-eastern person in my mind. I like to make friends with this kind people.

The only shortcoming in her character is her impulsion, after hearing that our company planed to lay off staff/employees last October, she quitted her job at once, she told me the this rule is made for her. She went to another factory in our county after leaving us, the same company with Maggi(my previous colleague), she did very well in the company and got great praise from her client, she kept good relationship with the client, and this client even promised her to give her a big red packet(5000 dollars)as gift for her marriage. I admire her very much for her communication skills, she can make friends with most people, whomever her boss, colleague,client and even a stranger. She is very aspirant, she enrolled and passed the competitive upgrade examination from college to university, during the periot she came to Wenzhou city to have classes, she met her previous BF, and they confirmed their relation very soon, this guy is tall and handsome, having a good family background, we were all very pleased for her, she was also very happy these days and to live near her BF, she quitted her job again and went to Wenzhou city, she joined a big company and got appreciation from her superior in very short time, it's so perfect for her future, both life and career, but some weeks later, she lost both of them, they parted and Belinda left for Xi'an for relax.

Last month, she went back to Ningbo and found a nice job in Ningbo, good salary and wellfare, I know from her that she is very happy now, she is busy but very fullfilling, she can take time to do Yoga. I told her we'll be together again next year.

Brother Xing

Brother Xing came back this afternoon, he is so thin and weak after two months stay in home. He experianced too much in the last two months, he turned to be a husband and father in such a short time from a active boy.

Xing really went through a hard time, he's two years older than me,already 29 this year, when he and his GF start associate, his GF has been pregnant for 4 months, but he didn't know at all, and she also didn't told him. After they cohabiting for some days, he found there's something wrong with her and after inspection in hospital, it's confirmed that she has been pregnant for 4 months, it's a bolt from the blue for him! No one can accept this fact, it's betray to him, but he can't desert her because of some days association and there's feeling in both of their heart. Everyone has past, him too, after some days struggle in mind, he decide to continue their relationship on the premise that she have to abort, cast this small life. It's rational to everyone, althougt it's illegal, but it turned out that the abortion can't be operated due to the baby is too big, if insisting on aborting, it would lead to future problem like never giving birth from then on. But if the baby is born, it's so unfair to Xing, how can he face the fact that the first baby is not his?

At last, he still decided to breed this baby, and more, he concealed this thing to his family to avoid unpleasure between his GF and his family. The baby was born on October 2nd, 10 days later, he was on the way to work, there's too much burden on his shoulder, he have to work and earn money to raise his family and his baby. I admire his courage and respect his choice, he's a nice guy, very few in this material society, he would be a nice husband and nice father in future.